Juan Ramírez Juan Ramírez

· by Blanca Molina

ABI is shared

Note: This post has been recovered from my archive after having been lost due to my brain injury. It was originally posted in my old WordPress blog on July 11, 2021.

ABI is suffered by both the patient and the closest family member. This is the point of view I want to share. My name is Blanca and I’m Juan’s wife. Juan directly suffers from ABI since March 2020. Since then, I also suffer indirectly from it.

I am a doctor but I didn’t know what ABI would bring to our lives. I remember I asked the neurosurgeon about the possible sequels of my husband’s brain surgery. He told me everything should return to normality again someday. But how and when? I was never warned about those surgery sequels. I was maybe very ignorant about that. The only thing I knew was that the brain tumor had to be removed. I thought that, in a few months, my husband would be just the same as before.

The reality is that, since then, we’re doing neuro-rehabilitation for more than a year. Although the path isn’t easy, with work and persistence, I’ve realized that we can achieve a lot of things, but we still don’t see the end of this story.

So from this moment I’ll write here about my experience as a caregiver who fights for the recovery of her husband.